Saturday, June 14, 2014

More and Various observations from my young Kuwaiti friend, Omar


Omar seems to have a softer version of Islam going for him.  The Koran was here to finish up the other two prophecies which had been contaminated by humans and therefore inaccurate.  It is the only book that has not changed since it was written and this is seen as a good thing.  However, Omar did say that Islam is not a religion that will change. 

He recalled a humorous video where two gay men tell the straight men that if they cannot marry each other, they will marry women.  The next scenes show happy male/female couples cooking, shopping, interior design and the like.  Similarly two woman tell straight women that since they cannot marry each other so they will now marry men.  The scene shifts to a male/female couple fixing the car, doing Xbox(?) and watching sports.   Omar got the joke and laughed and laughed. It is refreshing to talk with an Arab who is easy on the issue.

As for hell, etc.  Jews/Christians will follow their prophets into heaven, not go to hell as is the misconception.   This is news to me.  I don't see it in the Koran.

Omar agrees that the Koran is fear based to motivate good behavior like a law that threatens to punish.  The Koran was written “in this part of the world” and was addressing Jews and Arabs, who he sees as the same people.  Then he notes that  Middle Easterners are more… hypocritical (I'm not sure of the word here)?     

Omar wants something in life he feels passion about and this is Aikido.  His Zen Buddhist teacher (who liked him because he saw himself in this fine Kuwaiti lad) was cremated.  He is sorry that he was cremated and doesn’t know if the teacher is  in heaven or not.  Omar studied under him for about 5 years.

Yes, women in Kuwait may have a line of males following them, especially the good looking and perhaps not covered as much (which seems allowable if not somewhat risky).  One female told him of her good looking friend when a Rolls Royce stopped and a man got out.  She brushed him off, not knowing he was member of the Kuwaiti royal family. Only in Kuwait, right?

How did he compare Kuwait to the US.  In Kuwait – since Arabs don’t like to be stared at, he looks down.  He liked the US where people see each other and say hi.  Arabs in DC were very happy to meet a fellow Muslim.  He likes the mingling of the sexes in the US and notes gender segregation in Kuwait schools creates a misunderstanding of females by the males. 

As a non Muslim, you are not breaking the rules by being gay.  If I were a Muslim and told him I was gay, he would say I am a hypocrite because you can’t really be both by “law”.  But he wouldn’t not talk to the hypocrite.  Maybe perhaps just feel this person is not being honest to the religion.  (We didn’t talk about what a gay Muslim should do.)  He thinks gay Kuwaitis leave the country if they can.

Busy guy, classes, taking care of the house he and his father own, Aikido – gives him a full day most days.  Work week on average is 5 days.  I’m not sure how Kuwaiti’s treat non Kuwaitis.  He notes the nationals all want upper class jobs and positions and paychecks.  Lower jobs go to immigrants.  Omar sees the dependence on oil as a bad thing in this regard.

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